it’s ok to not be sure about your sexuality/gender ok guys? no matter how old you are. even if you’re in a relationship. even if you told everyone one thing. it’s really ok to not be sure because you’re growing and learning more about yourself ♬(ノ゜∇゜)ノ♩
I keep seeing Ellen & Portia divorce rumors everywhere, but that's such bullshit. That would never happen! AmIright?
It would never happen! People like to start trouble whenever things are great.
"The other day I was at the hair salon getting these extensions put in," DeGeneres joked. “And there were tabloids all over the hair salon… and on one of them, Portia and I were in the top right-hand corner. And I thought, ‘Oh that’s so sweet, they’re honoring us.’ But then I read the headline underneath. And it said, ‘Ellen and Portia Marriage Crumbles.’ And I was like, ‘Oh, what happened? They seemed so happy.’ And then I was like, ‘Wait, I’m Ellen.’ And I should know if that was happening.”
i feel so bad for bisexuals cause i can just imagine a bi guy telling a girl hes bi and her being like “ok so youre actually gay then..” or a bi girl telling a lesbian and her being like “so youre experimenting then..” n thats just really shitty like you dont deserve to have your identity taken away from you so easily
it’s sexist and heteronormative, it commodifies sex and women, contributes to rape culture, polices women’s sexuality, erases queer, transgendered and intersex people, conflates sexuality with morality and honor (negatively so for women), emphasizes gendered power dynamics, implies possession (men ‘take’ and women ‘lose’) which again, contributes to sexism and rape culture, romanticizes submissiveness and chaste behavior which makes it difficult for women to escape gender roles, reinforces thousands of years of patriarchy and continues the subjugation and oppression women face, has been idolized in all the wrong ways, historically has oppressed female sexuality (and still does), and so many other vile things. it is basically a rabid indictment of masculinity and patriarchy and needs to be destroyed